Relationship Reflection

Relationship fulfill love in your life.  Relationships teach you how to give of yourself.  The joy of giving teach you to care for others and put a smile on your face.  In a relationship you get the support you need during hard or sad times.

There are many people in my life that have affect my life.  My husband has always been there for me through illness and when I thought I could not finish my Bachelor Degree he gave me encouraging words to push me on. He also talk me into going for my Master Degree.  My children have always been there for me and pushing me forward.  Just as much as I push them.  I am very proud of them they all are in college right now pursuing their Bachelors too. My mother inspired me to be all I want to be.  She went back to college after all of us were born and got her Bachelor and later her Master and taught school for 25 years.

In order to develop and maintain a relationship you must first communicate with each other and have trust.  My children and I can sit down at the kitchen table and talk for hours about different things that go on in their lives.  My husband and I just sit and have quality time just talking to each other daily.

There are challenges in relationships today.  In marriages or friendship it can be losing trust for that person.  When this happen you must meet on an one on one bases and talk about the problems that come up.  You need to try and come up with a solution to the problems.  Death can be a problem that can effect a relationship.  You must give the other person time to grieve but show your support for them by helping them to remember the good times that they share with the person who has past on.

The characteristics of my relationship over the years is trying to always be there when someone need me and they will return the favor when you need it.  My relationship has an impact on my job because I want to treat my children in the classroom the way I want my children to be treated when they were in school.  I still teach the children the things my mother said to me as a child one is to use your eyes and look around and see what is going on in the new environment and then you will know how they do things in the new place.